Guys: Body Language
Basics For Seducing Women
by Tiffany Taylor
Body language is VERY important. According to studies
over 50% of your communication comes from your body language – what you
DON’T say and less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO
What does this mean to you?
It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you
and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at least
You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and
be able to
really get any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you
used those same successful techniques in the real world and lacked
obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH and
Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting
Later in the course we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body
language to READ her mind and know what she’s thinking. This article is
about YOUR body language.
Ok… So, I’ll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is
scope of this article (if you want more advanced detail concerning body
language you can check out my site: GuyGetsGirl.com).
Body language basics:
You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable
are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as
possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also
need to let her know that you are confident and comfortable around
women. A big and genuine smile is the best way to do this. It works. In
fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen that you can tell is about to give
you the “dead eye”, give her a big smile. Practice smiling at random
people. You’ll be surprised by how many people smile back and at how
many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just don’t make it a cheesy,
fake smile ;)
2. Eye contact
As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a
woman’s chest –
or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool
over her. If anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her
chest – she’ll wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and
she’ll seek your attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!
When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not
because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with
her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be comfortable
for most women. Don’t stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if
you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye
contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can
make serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window
to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that. There are even
speed dating type events being run that involve just staring into each
others eyes – and from what I hear, they are pretty successful.
Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of
conversation time. Be natural.
3. Upright posture
Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women
really do prefer
men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors
like Pitt, Cruise etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman
you are confident, healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It’s just
generally more attractive and says lots about who you are. Plus it’s
good for your back and will help strengthen your back muscles making it
easier to maintain.
Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.
4. Gesticulate with open palms
You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do,
it was almost certainly copied from this course).
I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and
this one is a
good one to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after
solid testing to picking up women – however, some people suggest that
when combined with a few other verbal and non-verbal techniques it can
even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of speeding fines!
Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and
make a point (that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself
(for example, a girl suggests you might be a player) you talk and using
your hands you have open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front
of your body with your palms facing the sky and smile as you talk.
It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest
you are being
honest and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust
you, making her think you are being straight with her, is important.
This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a
smile to work effectively.
Those are the basics of body language, if you'd like to
learn more visit Tiffany Taylor's site by clicking
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