Are You Making These Body
Language Mistakes With Your Hands?
Article by John Alexander
Unfortunately, what you do
with your hands can be one of the quickest non-verbal ways to destroy
attraction a woman feels for you, because the wrong hand movements can
communicate that you are a low-status, beta male.
To make matters worse, your
hands can be particularly tough to manage because, let's face it, when
you feel nervous, the hardest thing in the world is figuring out what
do with your hands!
For success with your dating
and seduction of women, make sure you don't make the following body
mistakes with your hands.
MISTAKE ONE. Displaying
your anxiety with your hands.
You do this when you:
1) Shred napkins.
2) Make your hands into
3) Sit on your hands.
4) Hold something and play
5) Twiddle your fingers
6) Hold your hands unnaturally
7) Sit on your hands to
avoid having the woman see them tremble.
Although you might be feeling
nervous, the last thing you want to do is to let the woman detect you
Instead you want to convey
that you're calm and in control. Nothing attracts a woman more than an
alpha male who's laid back and confident.
MISTAKE TWO. Putting your
fingers into your mouth.
When you bite your nails or
otherwise chew on your fingers, you are, according to psychologists,
the same thing that infants are doing when they suck their mother's
For a baby, breast feeding
provides comfort. When we became toddlers, our thumbs replaced our
And then as adults, biting
our thumbnail does the same thing. Ever noticed that when you're out in
public, you mainly bite your nails when you're under pressure?
THE SOLUTION. Just hold your
hands relaxed on the table.
Rest your forearms on the table,
keeping your arms open and letting them drop forward.
Keep your hands and arms
open and relaxed. Most of the time this means having them about 18
or half a meter apart, your palms facing each other, with fingers
As your palms face each other,
they should also face the woman. Open palms convey honesty and being
comfortable with yourself. Having the back of your hands facing her can
often convey that you're hiding something.
Demonstrating your confidence
can be as easy as that! Stop twiddling your thumbs and watch the women
flock to you.
John Alexander is author
To Become An Alpha Male, a girl-attracting success system that
will have you easily drawing women toward you like a magnet.
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