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by John
Alexander
Let me mention a few names
and you can tell me what they all have in common:
- Al Pacino
- Humphrey Bogart
- Napoleon
Okay, no surprise here...
they're all short guys. But you know what? They were all awesome with
the
ladies (and not just because of their celebrity status... they were all
players before they became famous.)
In fact, the reason they
could attract girls was because of their strong inner attitude.
There are a couple things
you can do in the short term. Wearing boots right now will subtly add 2
or 3 inches to your height.
Also, when you dress, wear
vertical stripes and tight clothes. That will make you look SLENDER,
which
will make you appear taller.
Long term, one way short
guys can be more dominant physically is to work out. In fact that
really
should be first and foremost. If you've got muscles, it helps A LOT,
not
only with your physical appearance, but also with your confidence
levels,
strong inner attitude, and poise. So get in the gym.
When you're muscular and
you're a short guy, you become like a pit bull. And by the way, I'd
like
you to experiment with that.. do not always be the nice guy who's
polite.
For the next few months, try to let your "inner badass" come out a bit
when you're with girls.
Do the affirmation, "I'm
becoming like the pitbull who can dominate the bigger dogs."
Once you start feeling more
and more confident in a few weeks, change your affirmation to, "I AM
like
the pitbull who can dominate bigger dogs."
I've noticed that a lot of
short guys develop a VERY strong presence by having cultivated that
inner
badass.
Now, I'm not saying you should
become a jerk... but just try to balance out that inner nice guy.
Next thing to do long term
is to GIVE UP any approval-seeking. Who cares what women think of you?
Go through life doing what you want and being who you are. (That is so
key by the way... those guys I list above were players exactly because
they went through life doing what they wanted and being true to who
they
were.)
You see, short guys who are
badasses really have a bit of an advantage. Because of their stature,
they
automatically are able to have more rapport with chicks (who tend to be
short themselves) than the guys who are beanpoles. And when you add to
that a bit of a "badboy" element, it makes chicks dripping wet with
attraction.
The bottom line is this:
only if YOU feel uncomfortable with your height will it affect you with
the girls. If you feel completely comfortable with your height, then
they
will too.
By the way, when it comes
to tall guys, what women find attractive about them isn't their height.
It's their dominance. If you have a tight sense of inner confidence and
project a personality that sucks them in, height will be the furthest
thing
from their minds.
So to sum up, be true to
yourself, take risks in life, cultivate your inner badass, and stop
caring
about anyone's approval. And hit the gym ASAP. And do the fashion
things
I said.
Then you'll attract girls
without worrying about irrelevant things like height.
John Alexander is author
of How
To Become An Alpha Male, a girl-attracting success system that
will have you easily drawing women toward you like a magnet.
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